I dont enjoy going out at night.
Yes, I barely enjoy it. Am I strange? I don’t drink alcohol and don’t understand why people having fun drinking that stuff.
I like music almost any kind of music. I like to dance. Fun music always makes me feel active. But why I never have fun when I go out?
I’ll tell you what I feel. I think some people don’t go there to just have fun.
They will try to be cool. That means they will dress up and talk cool and only have eyes for cool people. Do they really go for listening to music and dancing?
I don’t know why, when I dance at home or even in public places when I hear a nice tune, it never matters. But when I go out people just look at me like what the fuck I’m doing.
I mean it’s not always. But I kind of lack confidence. Because somehow I might try to be cool as well.
There are many people there, most of them drunk and most of them try to be cool by doing crazy stuff. Well, some people do and some don’t. And,you know, sometimes my weird dancing almost got me into trouble as some detested it.
Some people say they go to meet people. Well, no any stranger try to talk to me. And I never try to talk to any stranger. They don’t even look at me.
Someone say the DJ’s great as they have many good tunes. Well I do have good tunes in my iPod and no one thinks they are good.
Some say they have a nice place in the clubs and bars. Really? I can hardly see the deco coz there’re so many people there. Some places are cool but if there’s no people there no one wants to go there.
Therefore, I assume why people want to go out at night as so:
1. Get drunk
Coz they think they’re so stress they want to relax. so they spend a lot of money on that. I mean only basic needs like food and water not enough for them.
When they are addicted to alcohol, it starts to be not enough, and eventually they might go for drugs.
2. Get Sex
U c what I mean.
3. Show off
Their cloths their boyfriends or girlfriends their lifestyles whatever.
4.Kill Boredom
It’s boring being in. And boring to go to the same place.
So, people try to fill themselves with happiness, but when is it gonna be enough?
Witoon, I think you’re a very wise man
joe said this on Wednesday 9 August 2006 at 10:32 pm |
Y do u think so?
thanks for the comment anyway:)
Witoon said this on Thursday 10 August 2006 at 7:49 am |
People go out because it’s a common ground to socialise. Yeah, some do take advantage and just want the sex, drunkeness & drugs but no everyone. You’re tarring everyone to likes to go to a bar with the same brush.
Next time you’re out have a look at the ones who look like they’re ‘out to get drunk’ – chances are they’re aged 17-27, the experimenting age. Most will grow out of ‘wanting to get drunk/get sex ect.’.
I suggest you go out, dance whenever and whereever you feel and really don’t care about the looks others give you. They only jest because they’re insecure themselves. Believe me!
Enjoy yourself
Arianne said this on Saturday 16 February 2008 at 5:48 pm |
I have nothing against people who go out drinking, but i do find it sad that they feel thats the way to have fun. I personally much rather do exciting things in the day with a clear head and have a good nights sleep.
jennie said this on Thursday 27 November 2008 at 12:55 am |
There are advantages and disadvantages to both sides of the argument, as with anything in life. Personally, I would like to know what people find so fascinatiing about going out. I used to do that a lot when I was a teenager but my motivation was mainly to get drunk, have sex and take drugs. Now that I am slightly older I have gone off all of that (except the sex) but since I have a partner that is not an issue. I guess I am old fashioned and am comfortable in my own skin and therefore do not need other people’s company to justify my happiness. On the other hand, it does get tiresome being old fashioned and I sort of miss the fun that going out and being amongst friends brought me. I guess I am out of practice with that but am somewhat interested in getting back into it if that makes any sense?
Frank said this on Thursday 4 December 2008 at 12:29 am |
I am the same, I dont enjoy going out at night. and if i do go out it has to be with one friend and only to a bar and not a night club where there is dancing and loud music playing. i do drink alcohol but i seem to have a problem when it comes to enjoying nights out. have been in uni now for 2 years and cannot seem to understand why people enjoy dressing up as superheros etc, im very scared to go to a club now. i think i might have social anxiety
Jonathan said this on Monday 16 November 2009 at 7:35 pm |